Relations does matter.

Hmne hmari civics ki book me pda tha,”Man is a social animal”, or ye sach bhi hai.
Insaan is duniya me bina relations k nhi rh skta. Use jeene k liye relations ki zrurat hoti hai. Unke sath wo apni khushi share krta hai, apne dukh share krta hai, apni preshaniya unhe bta k apna mn hlka kr skta hai. In relations ko bnane k liye fir inhe nibhane k liye insan pta nhi kya kya krta hai, pr kbhi kbhi ye relations use dukh or takleef de jate hain.
Kisi bhi relation ko maintain krne k liye dono traf se imandari ki zrurat hoti hai. Jaise khte hai na, “dono hath se hi tali bajti hai”. Hm apne kisi relative ki unke bure waqt me help krte hain kyunki hm use apna mante hain to hm us se bhi yhi expect krte hain k wo bhi apni responsibility ko smje or use nibhaye. Pr kbhi kbhi wo ye baten bhul jate hain or hmari help ka galt fayda uthane lgte hain. Fir bhi hm apni puri kosis krte hain ki hm apne relations unse khrab na kren. Pr akhir hm hai to insan hi. Jb sari haden par ho jati hain or hmari kosison ka bhi koi saar nhi nikalta tb hm apna control kho baithte hain or hme kuch aisa krna pdta hai jisse unhe unki responsbility yad aa jaye. Us waqt hmari baten bhi unhe buri lgti hain or wo unhe galat trh se lete hain. Tb unhe to bura lgta hi hai hme bhi dukh hota hai. Or sbse zyada dukh tb hota hai jb in jaise relations ki wjh se hmare dil ke kareeb jo relations hote hain unme bhi darar pd jati hain or misunderstandings bn jati hain. Tb sawal yhi uthta hai ke jb hm apne relations ko bnaye rkhne k liye apna 100% dete hain to kya un relations ka bhi yhi farz nhi hota k wo bhi apna 100% de. Jb aisa hoga tb hme koi dukh nhi hoga or hm apni life me khushi khushi age bdenge or wo khushi hm apne relations k sath bhi share krenge.
This post is written by my fiance Varsha Rampuri . Its written in hindi. Soon I will update this post with its english translation.